She wants to fight me

[SweetThang4Jesus]

Hey guys what's up? Hope ya'all are having a good day. Anyway, this girl who used to be my friend that I had been trying so hard to win over to Christ wants to fight me now because of something that happened that caused us to get into a fight. I think its pretty stupid tho but the point is I love this girl and she's been a friend of mine forever. She's not and hasn't really ever lived for GOd and she so firmly grounded in her ways of not living for Him and is really stubborn about it and she wants to figh me now. SHe always has turned little things into a fighting matter and I don't want to fight her and don't know what to say to her anymore. I want to be her friend again so I can keep trying to lead her to Christ but she REALLY really believes I'm not a good friend and says she'll never be my friend and she'v very stubborn. Anywaym I've tried talking to her before and one time this lady at our church (this girl doesn't really go to church but sometimes she's there) said that sometimes Satan puts thing in our lives to pull us apart cause he know that one of us is a good example on the other or that were good for each other ya know? Anyway I just don't know what to say to her anymore and she always wants to fight me. I really want to be her friend not only to lead her to Christ but cause she's just always been my friend but this hating me thing has gone on for about almost 2 years now. We used to be best friends. ANy words will help. LAter.

[isaiah53]

just pray for her and do not give up!!! i do not mean to give an answer as an easy way out, but to encourage you. when i became a CHRISTian i listened to these preachers that said i won so many people to CHRIST, or when i preached so many came to the LORD. i fianally learned that i can not convert or win anyone to the LORD, it is all HIS doing. GOD has the hard part ,HE is the only ONE who can change a heart. " no one comes to theSON, except the FATHER draws them."
be as good as witness as you can to her, lift JESUS up, and pray without ceasing!!!, and always have a calm spirit when around her

[Guest]

Did you ever think that it is not her fighting with you but actually fighting within herself on what path to choose? You being a believer are walking one path, and she is in conflict with herself on whether or not to walk with you, or to try to dissuade you from walking the path you are on since she is not walking that path. Sometimes it may be just that simple. Pray about it, be at peace with it, and know that you must continue walking the narrow path, unwavering in your steps. Let your life continue to be the testimony, and witness, and be the best type of friend there can be....a true and faithful one.

[SweetThang4Jesus]

Thanks. Will do. I'll probably see her tonight but I'm just going to keep my cool and smile if she glares at me. Well, at least I'm going to try. Thanks.

[Vickie Easterday]

If your paths cross and your eves meet.... just tell her that you love her. And keep telling her that. God will bring her around.

Love in Christ,
Vickie

[GodsMalak]

True that Vickie!!!

[jw]

[/quote] you need to love her as god loves her.keep praying for here.God and only God can turn here heart.i myselve got saved because of of a this christian kid i was going to school with.he realy bugged me and i wanted to kick his butt.but GOD had better plans. her invited me to church i had plans to kick his butt that night, but instead i got the chance to know about a loving God and my best friend.that night i stayed at his house and before we want to bed he explained to me how i could get saved.i gave my life to jesus that night and it was the best thing that i have ever done.
keep loving her and praying for her because you realy do not know what god is in her heart.keep praising jesus and pressing on. :

[ZionsHope]

Walk the walk and Talk the talk, Pray, Pray, she is fighting aginst Jesus and not you, all of us have at one time or another...and probably still do at times. I feel the best witness at times is just REFLECTING Jesus in our lives, the light is bound to shine out to everyone. You are on our prayer list, better yet, God knows everything on your heart. Have a great day, Martin.